TIME MANAGEMENT

The most important thing in our life is time. Time will never wait for anybody. It is most valuable product in our life. Time once lost can never be gained. Time management has strong relationship with the personality development. Time management is about planning for the future; it is also about living today. Naturally it has something to do with our personal development. If you had an extra hour in a day, what would you do with it? It might help you to accomplish a work soon? Time flies when you are having fun. Time is wasted while we are talking unnecessarily. We will be losing time if we sit idle. We will be killing time if we do unwanted things. We will be saving time when we do useful things. Time is money. But time cannot be stored like any other commodity. You have some set goals. Your goals must be important to you. So you should win that successfully. It is with you. You have to maximize it. You have to know the value your time.

ROLE OF HEALTH

Of course, to perform life’s duties the first requirement is health. Health is wealth. A healthy person can only discharge duties in life efficiently. One should be in top health. We have to be healthy both physically and mentally. Mental and physical healths go hand in hand. What do we need to have good health? First thing is fresh air. A good ventilated dwelling house. Pure water to drink clean food to eat and also it should not be fat for the peoples. Handful of work. Physical exercise. Walking is good exercise. A cheerful mental attitude free from anger, jealousy etc. Keeping away from bad habits like smoking, drinking alcohol etc. To relax your minds engage you with some yoga and meditation. You can expect anything from a healthy person. What can be done by a sick person? A person who desires to improve his lively personality has to maintain good health which also enables him to keep up his bodily personality.

NEGATIVE THINKING

What does a negative thinker do? He is pessimistic. Hatred, cruelty, selfishness, self condemnation, animosity are the qualities arising from negative thoughts. A negative thinker under estimates people. He does not believe god. He has inferiority complex. He is inactive. He stops putting efforts. He is lethargic or lazy. He takes poor initiative. These are not at all the signs of personality development. Where as a positive thinker tries and put efforts till the work is accomplished. He is aware of his potential. He is always in action. He is cheerful. He never underrates his capacity. He never refuses to face facts and challenges. He creates heaven. But a negative thinker constructs a hell. A positive thinker is a busy man. He has no time to worry. He definitely has no time to think negatively. A negative thinker is a sadist. Personal development is never possible to him. Negative thoughts with mental inertia destroy a person. He says problems are integral part of life.

CONFIDENCE

Confidence is essential. Lack of activity in one’s abilities for a particular activity is the first sign of failure. People fully confident of success think positively and plan their each step. They do not have anytime negative thought. Positive thinking helps people to gain courage to face the infirmities of life. A positive thinker will have open mind. People with negative thoughts suspect others. They have fear. We should know the significance of positive thinking. It is wishful thinking. Faiths in one’s capacity to face challenges, belief, being always cheerful are all the manifestations of positive thinking. A positive thinker will have faith in god. We must educate our children and school children to think always positively. The very term positive says it is plus. Negative is minus or losing. The people should be confident if they are getting things or not, they have to do hard work without negative thinking. Sure if a person has confidence he will achieve their aim.

POSITIVE THINKING

Positive thinking is a way of life rather than a momentary thought. If you choose positive thinking you again a great and beneficial power. We have the gift of thinking power. We are different from animals in this way. If we do not achieve anything with this available gift it shows that we are using the gift negatively. As a man think, so he becomes it is an old axiom. But its meaning is ever new. A man is but a product of thoughts. So think wise. Our thinking should be powerful and purposeful. The quality of our life depends on the way we think, because all actions originate from thinking. When you think to help a person you will help him. A positive thinker achieves the impossible. He can see the invisible. He loves others. He is compassionate. He is optimistic. His positive thought begets positive results. He is constructive. He is innovative. He is creative. We should have positive approach in all walks of life. Positive thinking gives positive results. A positive thinker works with confidence.

IMPORTANCE OF LANGUAGE IN PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT

The Language is main thing in developing the personality. Becoming a multi linguist is a scholarship. Ignorance of local languages could be a handicap. These days, many states insist that their employees should be well versed with regional language. Besides learning a new language, good command over a language is essential. English is a global language. There is benefit in having a good command over English language. It helps in one’s career too. We should never allow a language to die. At the same time we should see that the language meet the needs and aspirations of the people. Otherwise it is bound to meet a natural death and its extinction is a natural process. Moreover with the loss of a language we lose a culture a collective knowledge of generation. This shows us that one should love his or her language. Master your language. Then you can learn other languages. Personality development expects a change. The growth of personality is thus a gradual process. While you prefer reading, writing, knowing languages, time management you will find a change.

ART OF READING

Learn the art of reading fast. By reading books we learn. We become innovative and creative. While you read a book and you get the clear information. Students have text books to read. They ought to read them. But they can develop a habit of reading other than text books also. They can very well start reading the newspaper. Remember, there are many books provide the way how to improve the personality and positive thinking. Cultivate the habit of reading books. You cannot start learning reading books in your old age. Reading or studying is common to both school and college going students unless they read well they cannot write or answer well in the examination. But in the text books the students cannot able to learn and improve their personality. The parents and teachers encourage the students to read the newspapers and books to improve their personality that will help the students to achieve the goal in their life.

ROLE OF LANGUAGES

A language is the dress of thought. A speech needs a language. Learning new languages is a hobby to many of the peoples. Learn a new language, master if possible. At the same time one should not neglect one’s mother tongue. There are good people who learnt more than ten languages. Moving with people who speak a language different from yours also help to pick up their language. One can attend classes conducted by various organizations. What is advantage of learning a new language or languages? One can improve his personality as he can come closer to those who speak to him in their own language. That is, he can mix with them. His scope of learning becomes wider. Now a day’s people move from place to place. While traveling to different parts of the country knowledge of languages certainly is helpful. Life becomes easier if you know the language of the area where you might have to stay. Suppose you are transferred to different parts of world that can be helpful.